Trying to raise positivity in dealing with cancer

I’ve joined a number of cancer support groups, the sad thing they are all so negative and full of people who think they are being scammed by the charities, some of the most toxic comments I’ve seen for a while. People need hugs and support these places are not really adminned well, perhaps that’s a bit disingenuous of me to say.🤗

Of course I understand some of the negativity because people are full of fear frustration and many of them are over flowing with anger because of either their predicament or a loved one and that’s ok, but others are openly trolling the various forums groups and that can’t be good for the genuine people that need these places for comfort.

How does that give anyone hope.❤️

This is the reason I’m writing this blog, I need to express and share my own experience of dealing with this with kindness, positivity and gratitude, dealing with cancer with hate fear and mistrust of the charities just don’t seem to be the answer.⛔

I’ve started on a new website design tonight I’m on a mission to start being productive, a great way to distract the mind from what’s going on a bit. 🙏

Had a lovely few hours today with one of my ex neighbours who popped in. We didn’t talk about Cancer too much, just beer curry and football, ⚽ you know the important stuff 😀

Lots of people calling me everyday with nothing but love, I can feel it I truly can❤️

Nothing heard from the hospital again today, I’m taking it that no news is good news 💪

Adventure on slight hold, no doubt full steam ahead to chemo world next. Need to have a little chat with my cancer on that one, again I’m talking kindly as it is being kind to me right now in a funny way. 🤗

I see the outside world is wrapped up in fear, fear of having no fuel. Fear of shops running out, just two name the two most obvious right now.⛽

If only people could see the fear is in fact just the next thought, we actually wouldn’t be having these problems, that’s all. We live in a world of fear in other words we live in a world of thought created fears .🙏

Yesterday I spoke about the Brazilian lady who I believe saw my cancer and gave me a massive hug in the street.

Another thing happened which I wanted to talk about because it’s been on my mind.

I’ve decided to learn the 🎸

I saw an ad on a local Facebook buy and sell group and contacted the seller and asked if they could deliver it.

They agreed which was really kind and the next day the partner knocked on my door with two guitars in hand.

Now I don’t usually invite strangers in, but there was something about this guy that just said he need to come in and talk to someone he looked in pain and so I told him to go and sit on the couch.

He was a real nice guy and basically told me his life story his worries and fears in that time. Why he chose me at that moment I don’t know. He’s really suffering from a bad back and I urged him to go and get a prostate blood test. We spent well over an hour chatting about everything , I bought a guitar they asked for £15 I gave him an envelope with £25, I had already decided it was a kindness to drop it off. Again feel my life was enriched by this chap and you never know I could have just saved him from going what I’m going through. The universe works in ways we can’t fathom, but as I’ve said before there are no such things as accidents, things are just meant to be. 🙏

Finally my message as always

You can not change anything from the outside it’s only what you do on the inside with yourself that makes a difference.❤️

Night and just be kind grateful and positive to anyone you meet and you world will be significantly richer in many ways 💕